Showing your partner who you really are (and why it's critical for lasting love)


“It’s easy to take off all your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams. Now that’s being naked.”

A deep human desire is to see into another soul completely. I believe that most people crave this yet very few of us know how to fully let another see inside of us or make another feel so at ease that they allow us to see inside them. This means we have a big discrepancy between what many of us are desiring and what we’re actually receiving. Or rather, not receiving.

I agree, it’s terrifying allowing another to see inside of us. We’re afraid of being rejected if we make ourselves vulnerable and share what our real thoughts and feelings really are.

I personally have struggled hugely to let another fully see into me. I’m guarded and private although those who know me well will also tell you I’m raw and real. It’s been very challenging to learn how to show myself to those I love, not to mention share with others how to do this also.

What is true however is that I’ve been blessed with amazing lasting relationships when I was able to develop this ability. My Clients have also often told me the same when we’ve worked through their stuff. What is also true is that I’m constantly learning how to open myself up more fully. These last few days during the course I was at and recently making time to truthfully answer questions with a dear friend, have certainly helped further with this.

What are some things about yourself you’re afraid to fully show another? With someone specific in mind, what do you believe would happen if you and they fully show yourselves to each other? Will you be courageous and do it anyway?

I just got off my flight back to Sydney, hence the timing of this post.

I’m excited to discuss this topic further with you.

My love ❤️
Talk soon


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